TOP SECRET! Don't Read. Part II

That is the big secret. Each time the male human specie thinks he asks himself, “How do I get from point A to point B?”

There are several ways to expound this. Let’s start with the basics. Men core thinking versus women. Men know exactly what to buy before they go out to shop. It’s simple. Point A, I need a new shirt. Point B, I buy the shirt at a shop that sells shirts that I like. Women on the other hand can make shopping so complicated to the extent that a few of them consider shopping “therapeutic.” For some women, shopping doesn’t necessarily mean buying something you need.

A very important thing to consider on this pattern of thinking is this. When men ask subconsciously how to get from point A to point B, there are no rules between the two points. Men have to get to point B whatever it takes. Again, no rules! For instance, when a man goes out for any occasion, he simply opens his closet, get dressed and starts walking. Point A in this situation is “not dressed for the occasion” and Point B is dressed for the occasion. Women on the other hand consider a lot of things before selecting what to wear. Women may think as simple as the color or design of the outfit for the occasion, to what her future mother-in-law would think if she chose to wear a low-cut skirt or a plunging semi-see-through floral blouse with pink ruffles sequenced in glittering silver beads. Women always seem to consider some thing, to say the least, before going to point B.

I’ll cite you another example of how to demonstrate this core thinking. One of the most common things men are known for all through-out history is sports. We know for a fact that men founded sports. Give a man a ball (point A). His challenge is to place the ball inside a hole or beyond a line (point B). Gather a few more men. Put some simple or elaborate obstacles. Voila! Sports!

Want another situation? Did you say two-timing? Between men and women, men are more notorious when it comes to adulterous acts. Here’s why. A man sees himself with his partner as point A. Man gets attracted to another beyond his control. Out comes point B - spending time with the attracter. Nothing complicated. It’s very plain and very simple.

Now women, on the other hand, not only start questioning the men but also themselves as well. If they ever get to the point to even entertain the attracter, they’d ask themselves what possibilities that can happen if they pursue point B. But when their partner pursued point B, not only do women question their partners but themselves as well! “He told me he loves me.” “Why is he doing this to me?” “I look much prettier than her, don’t I?” What did I ever do to deserve this?” Cliché, don’t you think? But for men, it wasn’t such a big deal because he still loves his current partner. He just pursued point B because there are no rules in pursuing point B.