Tuesday, October 24, 2006

TOP SECRET! Don't Read. Part II

That is the big secret. Each time the male human specie thinks he asks himself, “How do I get from point A to point B?”

There are several ways to expound this. Let’s start with the basics. Men core thinking versus women. Men know exactly what to buy before they go out to shop. It’s simple. Point A, I need a new shirt. Point B, I buy the shirt at a shop that sells shirts that I like. Women on the other hand can make shopping so complicated to the extent that a few of them consider shopping “therapeutic.” For some women, shopping doesn’t necessarily mean buying something you need.

A very important thing to consider on this pattern of thinking is this. When men ask subconsciously how to get from point A to point B, there are no rules between the two points. Men have to get to point B whatever it takes. Again, no rules! For instance, when a man goes out for any occasion, he simply opens his closet, get dressed and starts walking. Point A in this situation is “not dressed for the occasion” and Point B is dressed for the occasion. Women on the other hand consider a lot of things before selecting what to wear. Women may think as simple as the color or design of the outfit for the occasion, to what her future mother-in-law would think if she chose to wear a low-cut skirt or a plunging semi-see-through floral blouse with pink ruffles sequenced in glittering silver beads. Women always seem to consider some thing, to say the least, before going to point B.

I’ll cite you another example of how to demonstrate this core thinking. One of the most common things men are known for all through-out history is sports. We know for a fact that men founded sports. Give a man a ball (point A). His challenge is to place the ball inside a hole or beyond a line (point B). Gather a few more men. Put some simple or elaborate obstacles. Voila! Sports!

Want another situation? Did you say two-timing? Between men and women, men are more notorious when it comes to adulterous acts. Here’s why. A man sees himself with his partner as point A. Man gets attracted to another beyond his control. Out comes point B - spending time with the attracter. Nothing complicated. It’s very plain and very simple.

Now women, on the other hand, not only start questioning the men but also themselves as well. If they ever get to the point to even entertain the attracter, they’d ask themselves what possibilities that can happen if they pursue point B. But when their partner pursued point B, not only do women question their partners but themselves as well! “He told me he loves me.” “Why is he doing this to me?” “I look much prettier than her, don’t I?” What did I ever do to deserve this?” Cliché, don’t you think? But for men, it wasn’t such a big deal because he still loves his current partner. He just pursued point B because there are no rules in pursuing point B.

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

TOP SECRET! Don't Read. Part I

Do you want to know how men think? I’m not talking sex or sports or toys or even leaving a legacy. I’m talking about the root of why men act the way they act or more specifically, their core pattern of thinking. The information that I am about to divulge pertains to all men: gay or straight, ages 1 to 100, any race or religion, metropolitan or otherwise. As long as he is biologically the male human specie, this information is him.

Before I continue, I’d like to warn you again. What I’m about to give you is an information potentially powerful. It can affect your behavior towards all men in general for the rest of your life. If you’re a man reading this post, you’ll be surprised how uncomplicated we are. Either of two things will most likely to happen as soon as you realize the potential of this information: one, you’ll be in denial; or two, you’ll be fearful of how open a prey you’ve become to cunning modern beautiful women (or other men for that matter) who’ve realized this information before you.

Now, if you’re a woman reading this post, either of two things will most likely to happen: one, you’ll curl up inside and remain where you’re comfortable with; or two, you’ll use this information to the best of your advantage. But, take extreme caution. Like all vital information, when used irresponsibly, not only can it harm people but it could backfire. You could end-up hating men the rest of your life. You could also use this information to defeat any man in any debate or fool any man in his own game and win all the time. Some women I know would say, “What’s wrong with that?” Again, I warn you.

As I have mentioned earlier, there may be a few who have already realized this. Some of these few, I would assume are women typically viewed as powerful or intelligent. Still, some of these few are men who simply chose to be quiet or burry it deep enough so that it’s not noticeable to the keenest eyes but not as deep so as to make sure to remind them the potentials of its powers whenever necessary. And then there are those who have realized this all along but just couldn’t put their finger on it. They couldn’t put their finger on it simply because it’s too simple to be true, too GOOD to be true, yet too powerful to be carrying it around. They are just simply too afraid to analyze it further for its potentials are never-ending and always reliable. They can’t totally ignore it either even if they wanted to simply because it’s a part of them.

So, with all that in mind, let me share you how do men think? We simply ask ourselves consciously as well as subconsciously, “How do I get from point A to point B?”

Ponder…